Router for home with VPN and extended monitoring/parental ctrl

As title indicates, what home router would offer me
VPN service compatibility with services like NordVPN : would like to get more endpoints like tv, laptop, etc connect as from a few different countries
Parental control : view visited websites, lock/block various traffic based on categories and/or URL

Does this exist?

Use it with OpenDNS and you’ll have 100% of what you want.

You can thank me later.

Yes, it exists, and you have A LOT of options.

THe suggestion for Gl.Inet is a good one.

If you want something super-friendly and that can allow you to manage independent access points, take a look at Ubiquiti Cloud Gateway Ultra. Worth every buck.

https://store.ui.com/us/en/products/ucg-ultra

Is this router capable of https inspection as well? I.e if I want to monitor what URL my kids visit from which device without them knowing I am monitoring - so kindof like audit mode instead of blocking?

Is this router capable of https inspection as well? I.e if I want to monitor what URL my kids visit from which device without them knowing I am monitoring - so kindof like audit mode instead of blocking? I recall unifi systems didn’t do that in past…it’s done already or differently?

no, you need different stuff to do https inspection. You can do deep packet inspection through wireshark though, but that requires a high degree of proficency.

Is there anything available for a home network not enterprise grade budget that can achieve that?

you can always try to decrypt ssl traffic within wireshark, but it’s a bit advanced : https://www.comparitech.com/net-admin/decrypt-ssl-with-wireshark/

Never tried it, so cannot help further, sorry.